Tendencies.

This is a little jibe. (Actually you may recognise some of this from the Not the Nine O'clock News "Gay Christian" sketch, although it's a little perverted from the original.) My point is this: nobody's sexuality is a tendency. It's who they are. It's a point of self identification.

Saying I have homosexual tendencies is like saying I tend to have a willy, or I tend to have brown eyes. (By the way, in case you were wondering, I have a willy, and I have brown eyes. Oh, and I'm gay too.)